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Hi, guys (Hola) I am Tiffany(Estrella), a full-time student who goes to the university and loves to use words to express. This blog will be most about my life, feelings or even things that I wanna discuss with everyone from different places... Music and movies are almost everything to me... I just start to learn Spanish and I love it... "Feel free to leave comments or share your thoughts, you are all welcome." And if you find yourself having the same feeling as me then let's high five for that. __Tiffany
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Tuesday, December 21, 2010

What's the foundation of a relationship?

After going through what happened these days
I really and deeply think that the foundation of a relationship is "Trust"
Without believing each other, the relationship is just not solid enough 
I am so surprised and sad about how fragile a relationship can be

I used to want all or nothing 
but later on I found out that's just impossible, else I am just too selfish
So I started to realize that how important the word "trust" is 
If a relationship is based on having doubts on each other,
then we all know that it will definitely fail sooner or later

The most difficult part is how to draw the line
You don't want to hold them to tight so you choke them
But you don't want them to think you ignore them as well
That's why we have to believe in others
Because you trust them, you wont misunderstand them easily
As a result of that you wont fight or argue so often
That's how a strong relationship start to build

You might disagree with me and that is fine
But trust is the most important thing to me when it comes to relationship


P.S.  You almost back down on everything that you have tried to make me believe when I am just about to...
Well done ...
And thanks to you, now it is much harder for me to trust anyone again

4 comments:

  1. Totally agreed,,,

    Without trust you have nothing,,,it feels like you need to now what is he/she doing 24/7, ther´s nothing like having the trust of conversating and communicate everything you like or you don´t like about each other, no one is perfect and it´s not about asking someone to change their life style, it´s about finding the way to make things work out between each other, get to know that you´ll be able to overcome any problem that might appear in front of you as a team...sometimes it wont work, maybe it just wasn´t ment to be, someone told me once, "every relationship(incluiding friendships) has an expiration date, some might last 1 day, 1 week or even years, it is within you to learn from them and take with you only good things"

    Thats the way i see it...

    Saludos

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  2. those words in the end are quite interesting ...
    or else it doesnt have an expiration date ?!
    :) but it's interesting anyway

    Saludos

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  3. hehe yeah,, maybe one day you´ll found one without it,,

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  4. lol yeah
    I think I will and I think I already have a few now :)
    and you will find it as well ;)

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